I have been putting this off for a while – because I know that even some of my most loyal slaves can struggle to get the money together for my existing session rates. But I have held my rates steady since 2013 – and now it is time for an increase.
I am fortunate enough to have a whole series of regular slaves – some of whom have been seeing me since I started back in early 2013. [You know who you are K].
But every now and again, I get to see a ‘first time slave’. Sometimes those slaves might be ticking a ‘bucket list’ item – and perhaps after a session with me they conclude that, while it was interesting, it wasn’t really their thing? Which is totally fine!
One of the lovely things about what I do is that I am rarely surprised by anything. But a session a week or so ago did introduce some new things…
To go back 3 or 4 weeks…. I was contacted by a new slave (M). They had been instructed to contact me by their Mistress – who wanted them to engage me to help with their slut training. Of course I was happy to oblige!
My advertising approach has changed quite a few times over the past few years. In most cases, that hasn’t been through choice, but because of major realignments driven by law enforcement.
But now, I am taking an active decision to transition my advertising to Tryst – see https://tryst.link/bdsm/ms-emilie-oxford.
Several of my regular slaves have been asking me why I haven’t blogged much lately. In fact, I haven’t posted anything since December!
They have also been asking why I haven’t been posting session pictures to my Fetlife gallery - https://fetlife.com/users/2151700/pictures. And in fact, until a few weeks ago when there was a flurry of activity, I hadn’t posted anything for 8 months.
Regular slaves will know that I usually do several “specials” each year. But recently several of my favourtite slaves have reminded me that so far this year I have only had one special – a Tax Day special - which was obviously back in April.
So it is time to do a “New Year Special”…
And no… This isn’t a blog about the dimensions of one particular part of my or my slaves’ anatomy. That is more the province of my photo gallery – see https://fetlife.com/users/2151700/pictures/58003596
One of my particular interests is Domestic Servitude: including cleaning, sissy-maid training, gardening, … Put quite simply, there is nothing quite so wonderful as having a slave lovingly working away to make a house spick and span.
As I said in a blog last year, many of my slaves are very private. I don’t know their personal situations, and I am happy not to know – that’s their business. But every now and then, one of my slaves is interested in being more adventurous. They might be more experienced – or perhaps they are new and exploring. But whatever their experience level, they are interested in going out in public – on being on display.
I became active in the local kink / BDSM community almost as soon as I arrived in San Francisco in 2000 – and I still very much love going to kink / queer parties like the O.M.G. and Black Thorn parties. Do say hello if you see me at one of these…