One of the lovely things about what I do, is that I help slaves explore their fantasies – and in the process I get to expand what turns me on.
But some of those slaves are nervous. Nervous about seeing someone like me. And nervous about indulging their fantasies with me. So it can sometimes take a long time to schedule things – even when both our schedules align.
I have been putting this off for a while – because I know that even some of my most loyal slaves can struggle to get the money together for my existing session rates. But I have held my rates steady since 2013 – and now it is time for an increase.
I am fortunate enough to have a whole series of regular slaves – some of whom have been seeing me since I started back in early 2013. [You know who you are K].
But every now and again, I get to see a ‘first time slave’. Sometimes those slaves might be ticking a ‘bucket list’ item – and perhaps after a session with me they conclude that, while it was interesting, it wasn’t really their thing? Which is totally fine!
One of the lovely things about what I do is that I am rarely surprised by anything. But a session a week or so ago did introduce some new things…
To go back 3 or 4 weeks…. I was contacted by a new slave (M). They had been instructed to contact me by their Mistress – who wanted them to engage me to help with their slut training. Of course I was happy to oblige!
My advertising approach has changed quite a few times over the past few years. In most cases, that hasn’t been through choice, but because of major realignments driven by law enforcement.
But now, I am taking an active decision to transition my advertising to Tryst – see https://tryst.link/bdsm/ms-emilie-oxford.
Several of my regular slaves have been asking me why I haven’t blogged much lately. In fact, I haven’t posted anything since December!
They have also been asking why I haven’t been posting session pictures to my Fetlife gallery - https://fetlife.com/users/2151700/pictures. And in fact, until a few weeks ago when there was a flurry of activity, I hadn’t posted anything for 8 months.
Regular slaves will know that I usually do several “specials” each year. But recently several of my favourtite slaves have reminded me that so far this year I have only had one special – a Tax Day special - which was obviously back in April.
So it is time to do a “New Year Special”…
And no… This isn’t a blog about the dimensions of one particular part of my or my slaves’ anatomy. That is more the province of my photo gallery – see https://fetlife.com/users/2151700/pictures/58003596
One of my particular interests is Domestic Servitude: including cleaning, sissy-maid training, gardening, … Put quite simply, there is nothing quite so wonderful as having a slave lovingly working away to make a house spick and span.
As I said in a blog last year, many of my slaves are very private. I don’t know their personal situations, and I am happy not to know – that’s their business. But every now and then, one of my slaves is interested in being more adventurous. They might be more experienced – or perhaps they are new and exploring. But whatever their experience level, they are interested in going out in public – on being on display.