When I was setting up my website I made a decision to not have an online calendar – mainly because I see so many online that are either not very active and/or not maintained. So I concluded that my having one was too much trouble.
I seem to be traveling rather a lot lately. In part because I seem to have collected a stable of regular slaves and sissies who are in Southern California or even further afield. And in part because I have a bunch of lovers and friends who are “working away” – where they find it difficult to get much time off, so the only way I can spend time with them is by visiting.
I love lingerie. I like to buy it for myself. And I love it when my rather wonderfully attentive and adoring submissives buy it for me – in particular from my wishlists at Five and Diamond, Heavy Red or House of Harlot.
I was on a road trip over Spring Break, and while that went rather well, when I got back, I got a cold.
A few months back (in October?) I blogged about “branding” submissives - where I write ownership messages on their bums (butts for you Americans). In quite a few cases I have to do some shaving first. Some submissives have such hairy bums that it can be hard to see what I am writing? And then I write messages in sharpie on their butts – “Ms Emilie’s Bitch” or “Ms Emilie’s Slut” or “Ms Emilie’s Sissy”.
I mentioned in a recent blog how I enjoyed setting challenges for my submissives – and how it gave me a sense of controlling them outside the dungeon.
Well… A week or two ago I came across a Fetlife group called Humiliation, Tasks and Challenges For The Aspiring Submissive (And Ideas For The Dominants Who Love Them) where submissives ask for humiliating tasks to be set for them. And something about one of the posts by fuck_slut, or perhaps it was their rather fetching pictures, caught my attention.
Last month I went to the Sissy Night event at Wicked Grounds. This is a monthly event arranged by the lovely Mistress Alice (http://www.aliceinbondageland.com/). And by the way. there’s another one coming up on the 20th (https://fetlife.com/events/181640).
I notice that quite a high proportion of my clients are interested in feminization or sissification. Which is actually quite nice, as I seem to find a “man in a dress” really rather hot!