The following are colleagues and friends. I cannot recommend them too highly. They are rather wonderful women - and lovely people to do co-sessions with...

Lady Liv Ragnarok

Luv Mercedes

Ms Cassandra Creant 

Rachel Toyboxxx

Selina Raven

Sophia Amelia

The German Domina

TS Mistress Emma


The following are a selection from my bookshelf. You get extra special kudos if you have read / can talk to these.


A Hand in the Bush” by Deborah Addingtonbook 1

Anal Pleasure and Health” by Jack Morin

Consensual Sadomasochism” by William A. Henkin and Sybil Holiday

Genderqueer: Voices From Beyond the Sexual Binary” edited by Joan Nestle, Clare Howell, and Riki Wilchins

In a Queer Time and Place” by Judith Halberstam

Exhibitionism for the Shy” by Carol Queen

Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity” edited by Mattilda aka Matt Bernstein Sycamore

Annie Sprinkle - Post-Porn Modernist” by Annie Sprinkle

Sex Changes: The Politics of Transgenderism” by Pat Califa

The Lazy Crossdresser” by Charles Anders

The New Topping Book” by Dossie Easton and Janet W Hardy

The Second Sex” by Simone de Beauvoir

Transgender Warriors: Making History from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman” by Leslie Feinberg


Best Bisexual Erotica” edited by Bill Brent and Carol Queen

Best Bisexual Erotica 2” edited by Bill Brent and Carol Queen

Best Bondage Erotica” edited by Alison Tyler

The Leather Daddy and the Femme” by Carol Queen [Perhaps... my favorite!]


The following are interesting and/or useful web sites.

Academy of SM Arts


Good Vibrations

Michael A Rosen

Society of Janus