A Virtual Challenge - Guest Post

Posted by msemilie on Sunday, 9 November 2014

I mentioned in a recent blog how I enjoyed setting challenges for my submissives – and how it gave me a sense of controlling them outside the dungeon.

Well… A week or two ago I came across a Fetlife group called Humiliation, Tasks and Challenges For The Aspiring Submissive (And Ideas For The Dominants Who Love Them) where submissives ask for humiliating tasks to be set for them. And something about one of the posts by fuck_slut, or perhaps it was their rather fetching pictures, caught my attention.

Branding bitches

Posted by msemilie on Friday, 31 October 2014

I sometimes get asked by people whether I regard them as slaves or submissives. As it turns out that is a much debated question in the BDSM community. For example on Fetlife (which is a great source for kink discussions in general) there are literally dozens of groups where this is discussed / written about.

Business casual

Posted by msemilie on Wednesday, 8 October 2014

I have fallen behind with my blogging, but September was somehow very busy. There was Folsom Street Fair (of which more later) but also a whole series of sessions with out of town visitors. Maybe they were visiting for Folsom Street Fair or Oracle Open World or just one of the many conferences and conventions that happen in San Francisco, but there do seem to have been quite a few visitors this past month.

Public Play

Posted by msemilie on Thursday, 28 August 2014

I work at a few private dungeons / play spaces around the City. And most of my submissives / slaves strongly prefer to see me one-on-one in those spaces. I assume a very strong part of that preference, although I really do not ask, is that they are very much concerned with “discretion”.

Change Of Pace

Posted by msemilie on Thursday, 31 July 2014

Most of my sessions involve a submissive / slave who is interested in BDSM. And a strong powerful domme like me is their dream come true. But occasionally I see people who do not necessarily see themselves as submissives or slaves – who are not interested in BDSM per se.

World Cup Fever (More)

Posted by msemilie on Wednesday, 2 July 2014

As I blogged recently, life has been very busy recently, managing scheduling of sessions and the rest of my life around the World Cup. 

But yesterday the scheduling challenges became a little easier when I visited with a really good Domme friend to watch the morning Round of 16 game. And she had arranged for one of her slaves to be present to serve coffee, breakfast, whatever we needed, while we watched the game.

Reflections on DomCon LA

Posted by msemilie on Wednesday, 21 May 2014

I was a Special Guest at DomCon LA this weekend just gone - May 15-18.

I had a wonderful time! Last year I went to quite a few classes but this year I skipped them all in favor of socializing and events. And in practice, I’m not sure I would have had time for classes anyway.

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