Public Play

Many of my slaves are very private. I don’t know their personal situations, and I am happy not to know – that’s their business. But it does mean that they just turn up to “scratch their itch”. And that they are perfectly happy to turn up at the agreed time, to spend time one-on-one with me in my dungeon, and then just go back to their regular “vanilla” lives.

But every now and then… I have a more adventurous slave. Perhaps they are more experienced – a long term “player”. Or perhaps they are relatively new and exploring. But they are interested in going out in public – on being on display.

Folsom

Being kinky in San Francisco, one of the high points of the year is Folsom. But in reality, as it has become larger and larger, it has become more and more “vanilla” – to the point where I haven’t been for a few years…

I did go to Folsom two years ago, where I had an intense and interesting time over two or three days with an ever shifting bunch of friends and slaves. But that had its issues and/or limitations – mainly because it was sooo crowded and it was sooo hard to find or be authentically kinky.

Relaunch

Some of you will remember that I was on hiatus during August. Partly because I was travelling for a few weeks, then being scheduled for a small medical procedure (which went very well - nothing to be worried about) which necessitated a few weeks recuperation. And then I realized… I was ready for a break - an opportunity to recharge my batteries – which would also allow me to spend more time with friends and acquaintances in the community.

Chocolate (or not?)

One thing that always amazes me about the human race is how so very similar we all are – and yet in some respects so very different.

In particular… Personally, I don’t really like chocolate. I don’t dislike it… I am just rather neutral.

Hiatus until end-August

I have been seeing slaves since April 2013 – although I was very much embedded in the local BDSM and sex-positive community for many years before that. I have loved the wonderful variety of people I have seen over the past four years plus, and the wonderful variety of interesting sexual things I have been getting up to in session. I have particularly loved the rich relationships I have established with some of my regulars – some of whom are now genuine friends (including going to their birthday parties, meeting their partners, etc.).

Collective Sissies

I was exchanging messages on Fetlife with one of my favourite sissies (kieragurl), talking about a recent session with Burumasan and another young trans woman (not on Fetlife) who Burumasan had introduced me to, when I dived down a language rat hole.

Two Submissives

I often refer to the people who see me as my slaves and sissies – but in some cases it is more appropriate to just say submissives…

DomCon LA Report

I’ve been away for almost two weeks… I headed to SoCal on May 16th, then to DomCon LA on the 18th through the 21st, then back up home to the Bay Area on the 30th. So much travelling – and I am enjoying being home in the Bay Area…. Getting re-acquainted with my local slaves and sissies. It’s good to be home – even if this is my adopted home!

DomCon LA 2017

It’s that time of year… I am about to head off for a few weeks of travelling… Heading to SoCal on May 16th, then to DomCon LA on the 18th through the 21st, then back up home to the Bay Area on the 30th. 

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