Over the past few months, I have been spending occasional time at a Bay Area “play party” and one of my favorite sissies has been encouraging me to write about it…

This is somewhat outside the usual strand of blog posts for me. But, whether my slaves and sissies think about it or not, I actually have a personal life outside of my pro domme life.

And in that personal life I am still a horny, sexy, very toppy, domme – that is who I am.

So one particular play party that a friend has been taking me too is very much to my taste. It is a semi-private party, by invitation only, in a warehouse in Oakland – and it is hardly plush – with marginal heating and BYOB and airbeds for play. But it somehow seems to be very diverse and inclusive – which is important to me. So there are a very wide range of people there – cis women, cis men, and trans women – but no trans men? And people who seem very kinky and very open to interactions with all and sundry.

I typically tend to start in social mode, talking to people, being inquisitive, making connections. But then later on, after a few drinks, after a few conversations, after some flirting and flitting, I often find that I am involved / playing with interesting and cute people. I am usually toppy with whoever it is, but I am also not averse to having a range of people “worshipping” me…

Well… It’s all good clean (perhaps not) fun…?

Ms Emilie