A few weeks back I went on an interesting workshop on wax play. I have done wax play in the past, but was interested to try out my new knowledge. So when one of my favorite submissives (Nomicon) booked a session for yesterday my thoughts naturally turned to that. And Nomicon is so accommodating – he is so ready to indulge his Mistress. So I knew it was a wonderful opportunity to put the workshop ideas to the test. 

I spent some time debating how I would position Nomicon. As it happens the dungeon we were using has a rather wonderful sling where I can immobilize slaves, while still having all of their “parts” exposed. So that’s where Nomicon ended up – and I also blindfolded him so that the wax play would be a surprise. 

But there were a few points that did not feature in the workshop – or perhaps I missed them in my note taking?  

• Firstly it is a good idea to light the candles (I was using two) early in the session, so that by the time you transition to wax play, the candles have been burning for a while, and there is a good supply of hot wax. Unfortunately, I lighted the candles some way into the session, and then had to divert to other activities until the wax was ready.
• Secondly different candles generate different wax – and in particular different levels of heat. So the pink candle wax was hot but bearable, while the orange candle wax was very hot and hardly bearable. But to his credit, Nomicon wriggled and groaned, but did not have to go to a safe word.

Sadly, I had hoped that the wax would have been colourful– that it would have created a more artistic effect. But it tended to come out less pink and less orange than I expected. Although it did result in a heavily wax encrusted genital area – which I think looks rather fetching. 

After torturing Nomicon so, I felt that he needed a reward, and decided to let him worship me – to display his “special talent” (as he describes it). And he is really rather wonderful. Very dedicated and serious about his craft. And I was only too happy to have him worship me, in that “special” way for perhaps 30 minutes or more.  The only potential issue being that afterwards when we retired to a nice dinner in a Potrero Hill restaurant, I was exceedingly distracted.

But perhaps that is a good thing… That the next slave to session with me will benefit from….?

 Ms Emilie