Mentoring

I became active in the local kink / BDSM community almost as soon as I arrived in San Francisco in 2000 – and I still very much love going to kink / queer parties. Do say hello if you see me at one of these…

Pictures....

I really enjoy taking pictures when I am in session – there’s something sooooo exciting about ass’s presented and branded… But to be honest, I have been somewhat dilatory about posting pictures over the past month or so…

Am I gay?

At one point in the past, I blogged about "forced bi" - but in all honesty it seems that most slaves and/or sissies do not need to be forced.

So to be clear... I am a transsexual domme. And a very high proportion of my slaves/sissies are interested in some version of "forced bi" – where they (to be plain) want to suck my cock - sometimes for the whole session. Or they want to be fucked by me - even when they do not really have enough experience with anal sex for that.

Tax Special Revisited

I have actually finished my taxes this year – one whole week ahead of the deadline. But it still irks me very much that it is such a production here – compared to the very straightforward tax process back in the UK.

Acronyms

It seems that every area of professional expertise has a set of in-crowd acronyms. Back in the day, when I was in software, we had so many – even down to TLAs (three letter acronyms). And now as a pro domme, it turns out that our community has almost as many acronyms...

Pegging

I recently had a potential slave asking whether I did pegging – as I do not mention that on my website.

“Pegging” is usually taken to mean a cis woman taking a submissive with a strap-on. But I am not a cis woman – I am a trans woman. And while I do have a variety of silicone dildos for various play purposes, I also have an organic cock (there… I said it) which I can use to “peg” my submissives.

Oakland…

There is a shift happening in the Bay Area. I have lived in San Francisco since 2000 and have always loved it here. But the City is changing – in particular the effects of gentrification, with rising rents driven by tech bros driving out the artists, queers and/or sex workers. So many people I know are now living somewhere in the East Bay. I can really feel the center of stuff shifting eastwards towards Oakland.

Eros raided

If you think about it… I am running a small independent business - connecting slaves’ fantasies to the reality of meeting me. I love what I do. And I love that I make my slaves’ fantasies come true.

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