I’ve occasionally found myself in co-Domme sessions – where I and another Domme cooperate in dominating a submissive / slave. Usually that’s at the submissive’s request, either where one of my slaves is interested in another Domme joining a session, or where another Domme’s slave is interested in me joining a session. While the submissive usually makes the final request, that request is usually the culmination of a lot of discussion / negotiation during previous sessions, as the slave explores their interest / starts pushing their boundaries – often at the Domme’s urging.

In practice, this doesn’t happen all that often. In part because paying for two Dommes’ time is obviously more expensive, and out of the reach of many slaves – or forces them to spread their limited funds over a much longer time frame. But also because scheduling two Dommes and a slave just seems to be incredibly difficult. For example, in one situation last year, it took nearly three or four months from the initial slave request through to actually having the session – with several failed scheduling attempts in the process. And while that little slave toy was so enthused with the session that they wanted to schedule another pretty quickly, we haven’t managed to get all of our schedules in line since.

When it does happen, my experience has been somewhat mixed. One needs a particular kind of connection between a slave and their Domme for a one-on-one session to be successful. And even when the Domme is very empathic and flexible in their approach, as I like to think I am, it doesn’t always click. But getting that kind of connection between a slave and two Dommes, and between the Dommes themselves, can be very much harder. So there have been one or two sessions where, despite the session going reasonably well, and the slave being happy, I wasn’t really feeling the right kind of connection, and probably wouldn’t do that particular combination session again.

But when it goes well… It goes so well! There’s something about the more complex dynamic between a slave and two Dommes that, when it is going well, is so much more charged. It is almost as if the Dommes are feeding off each other’s energy, talking to each other and to the slave, sometimes both interacting with the slave at the same time – which drives the slave into a wonderful submissive space. And I’ve been lucky enough to have some sessions like that.

And in one case, as well as having a wonderful co-Domme session, I also found a rather wonderful Domme friend. The co-Domme session with the slave went very well, but more than that, I am so very pleased that the slave introduced us. We might never see that slave again, but we hang out frequently and Goddess Philippa is now one of my very best girlfriends.

 

Ms Emilie