I've been meaning to write a blog about "forced bi" for a while now. But have been somewhat inhibited by how it intersects with notions of sexuality and identity. 

So a disclaimer... I am not a sociologist, nor a sexologist. I am just a sex worker, interacting with clients, and trying to make sense of their interests. So what follows is based on my interactions with clients, my understanding of what is going on, and some limited feedback from clients [Thank you Keira].

So the issue...? I am a transexual domme sex worker. And a very high proportion of my clients are interested in some version of "forced bi". Where they (to be plain) want to suck my cock - sometimes for the whole session. Or they want to be fucked by me - even when they do not really have enough experience with anal sex for that.

So while I really do enjoy clients sucking me - to varying degrees depending on how well they follow directions. And I also enjoy fucking clients. The question that I often ask myself is "How do the clients understand their interests"?

For some clients, being "forced" to suck cock (albeit attached to a TS woman) is a way to address their interest in cock. They don't think of themselves as "gay". They are just being forced to do what they really want to do.

For other clients, interacting with a TS woman is a dream come true. As Keira says "Being forced to suck a man would not be a turn-on for me. But submitting to a beautiful dominant TS, who has great breast and a cock too ...is a big turn-on for me. I enjoy looking at Kink.com's TS Seduction site for this subject matter. I am not interested in men at all, but TS is totally another subject matter."

In the end, the labels are not very helpful. If you (one of my clients) are attracted to me, and want to interact sexually with me, what does that say? It doesn't say that you are "straight" or "bi" or "gay". Just that you think I'm hot and you want to submit to me. To please me. Good boy!