I was away for the last week or so at Burning Man. I haven’t been since 2010 or so but this was my 10th time. So it was interesting to see how it has changed since I was last there / since I was first there.
I like to have a conversation at the start of every session to make it clear that my submissives or slaves or sissies have two safe words. Yellow means back off and let’s have a conversation about what’s happening / what’s causing a problem – and then we will continue. Red means I need to end this session right now – for whatever reason – a medical emergency or perhaps they have just decided they need to leave.
My regular readers will know that I usually blog about aspects of my Pro Domme work. But for a change I wanted to highlight something of a more activist nature...
Regular readers of my blog will remember that each July I take a partial break and head off to a “lifestyle” “bi swingers” party. In previous years it has been in Las Vegas at a small “gay” “clothing optional” resort hotel – and in effect it was a takeover, where the “bi swingers” took over the whole resort for the weekend.
A few weeks back I went on an interesting workshop on wax play. I have done wax play in the past, but was interested to try out my new knowledge. So when one of my favorite submissives (Nomicon) booked a session for yesterday my thoughts naturally turned to that.
I seem to have been traveling a lot lately. Sometimes that has been personal – to see friends. Sometimes that has been business - to meet up with slaves in other cities.
I know that there some regular clients whose financial situation is such that they cannot see me very often – or wait for occasional specials (such as my annual Tax Day special) to maximize their resources. So they will be happy to hear that I am going to offer an Independence Day Special.
My submissive Nomicon has been blogging about DomCon LA and his experiences there. But I did think it would be appropriate for me to do a summary report.
My submissive Nomicon has been blogging about DomCon in LA and his experiences there. And one of his posts about forms of address and behavior made me think...
In business there is a maxim that good leaders know when to delegate – and I think there is some truth in that. And then I saw a tweet recently that said “Those who can, do. Those who can have someone else do it for them, Domme” – which certainly rang true for me.