No. I do not mean controlling your TV or heating or lights remotely. I mean my controlling slaves/subs at a distance. My having slaves/subs “At My Service” independent of location.
To step back, I was on Niteflirt for a while. In fact I may still have an account there. But it turned out that I did not enjoy that style of domination – talking to somewhat random slaves, who might come and go, at a distance. In practice I prefer some degree of connection. And I had assumed that required an in person presence.
As a result, I have tended to discourage any remote slaves/subs who contacted me.
And then a few months ago, I attended an online presentation on “Domming from a Distance” presented by Miss Chris (https://fetlife.com/users/63676). That introduced a whole new perspective for me. How one could use (mostly) vanilla mechanisms like (for example) texting, Zoom, digital picture frames, and security cameras to control remote subs. It also covered internet enabled (for example) spanking machines, chastity cages, TENS units, and massagers to exert more direct physical control.
Taken together, that gave me a whole set of ideas on how I could control remote subs – to different degrees and different intensities, depending on the situation.
And then, serendipitously, I was contacted by a couple of new subs who were looking for precisely that kind of remote control.
These are developing relationships, but I love how the mechanisms presented in “Domming from a Distance” allow me to manage these new subs at a distance. And I have discovered how very much this new aspect of control interests and excites me – even as much as having a well-behaved slave/sub in my dungeon.
If this kind of remote control interests you, do contact me at http://msemilieoxford.com/contact...
Ms Emilie